Why does everyone think you can't experience real intimacy with a "girl like us"? I guess it depends on how you define "real". Every moment is real, as real as two people choose to make it. This is your real life. This is my real life. Real intimacy doesn't have to be a life long affair. Even if it's fleeting, that doesn't make it and less real. Intimacy is about connecting with another person, not just in body, but in mind and spirit as well. It's something that we all need, as necessary a part of human existence as air, food and water. We need it to thrive. We need it to LIVE, lest we whither and die in a self made prison of isolation, so afraid to connect with another person because of what we may see in them, and what they may see in us. But that's what life is about. That's what real is. It's not always perfect, just like we aren't always perfect, but that's the vulnerability we need to feel alive, if only for a moment... Accepting limited engagements next week, with those looking for something real. Not something permanent, but something real, none the less. CamiParker@hotmail.ca (604) 425-1528