Newbie here. Jess 26 pre op trans From Cebu city. Finding someone special proved to be difficult, but I did meet many nice men out there. I had grown up with my strict auntie in Makati and I was grounded. at that time I'm looking to understand my own sexuality.I have never attached my self-worth to some idea of virginity or monogamy, and Im really still explore many of my desires. I was meeting people living alternative lifestyles, and, as I got to know them, the stereotypes that I had built up started to come apart. During this time Im in my mid-twenties, I wanna explore and collect some memorable experiences.